I think I've reached a…
I think I've reached a conclusion! Hot pink romance is a primitive, evolutionary drive women have to be wooed / courted by men before consenting for sex / reproduction. It's a woman's way of choosing the right mate, with the best plumage / mane, to produce high-quality offspring
Marriage is a very different, modern, social institution based on inter-personal compatibility - it's a very rational, calm-headed decision to be with the best long-term provider - man or woman. Humor, nature, personality must all be factored into when looking for a long-term companion. Good sex is just one part
The two - romance and marriage - usually merge for sensible people.
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